There's been a lot written about the "terrible" twos, and I'd admit that there's a little something to all the fuss, but it's hardly the worst period in one's life. It's more the culmination of independent thought that's been building for 6 months or more. There aren't even any hormones involved (as in puberty and menopause). So, it came as no surprise to me that Astrid showed up one morning in a mood previously reflected by "I don't want to go ; I want to go back to bed!"
I had paints ready for her that day, and there certainly wasn't any need to eat breakfast BEFORE doing the sticker exercise that I always leave on the little table in my office for her, so I suggested that dad just leave her when she chose to do the sticker exercise before breakfast. That was about a week ago and I think she's done the sticker exercise every day since before choosing to eat.
Painting is a great way to "expel the demons", and I suspect the famous painters of old had their share of demons to expel.
I didn't even bother to don her paint smock -- this new paint washes out readily anyway --- and I pulled a chair over so she could sit while painting. When she was done painting (using both brush and hands) the demons had been expelled and she was once again happy and (what most of us notice more) compliant. We had more fun together that day than usual.
Tomorrow is another painting day. I try to fit one in each week even with the added time-waste of a Mickey Mouse video. I also try and fit in a bath play period once/week because we have a huge bathroom tub in our master bathroom that we never use.
Until now, we'd been adhering to recommendations that children under two years old watch zero TV/videos. Somehow she learned of Mickey Mouse, though, so I started searching out free MM club videos.
Local weather has been pretty spring-like lately, so we've been taking walks each time she's here, as well. Last Friday we had magnets I'd ordered, so I tied two of them to pencils and we "fished" for objects on our walk. She caught a pretty big screw.